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“…when a guy’s really into you, he’s coming upstairs.” - Berger, from HBO’s Sex in the City

Does anyone actually want a serious relationship with someone who is not all that into us? I mean, honestly, when is the last time you heard someone ask for that in their boyfriend? I can tell you how often I’ve heard it - never. So shouldn’t we only be dating the ones who actually are interested? The answer is yes - unless we’re talking about Meaningless-Sex-Guy and that’s a whole different article. So, I think the first order of business is to address how it you actually know if a guy is into you. Allow me to share my thoughts…

You know because he makes it clear beyond a shadow of a doubt. You know because he asked you out almost immediately after meeting you. You know because he made the first move before it ever crossed your mind that you might want him to. You know because you don’t have to ask your girlfriends if they think he really “likes you". You know because your phone doesn’t stop ringing. But the ultimate tell-tale sign that a guy is off the market because he’s really into you? He ditches his buddies to be with you.

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